Masturbation for Penis Owners <3
Often times Male Masturbation is viewed as a release, and while it’s a great way to relieve stress, it’s disappointing that men aren’t taught to enjoy themselves and learn their bodies and preferences the same way women are. I mean, when you’re rubbing one out have you ever just played around to see what strokes feel the best? Have you added textures to see which feels the most realistic? Or changed position? Do you prefer stroking or frenulum pressure?
Masturbation doesn’t just have to be about the function. It can be a great way to practice self-care and has numerable health benefits. I’ve already mentioned stress relief, but it can also help you sleep better, boost your mood, feel pleasure, share better sex with your partner and better communicate your wants and needs. There has been many a study that shows men who ejaculate frequently have lowered risks of prostate cancer. Doctors aren’t quite sure why.. But hey, if the studies say masturbation helps who are we to argue?
Here are our favourite techniques to changing up your routine.
-Try changing the place that you masturbate. If you’re someone who masturbates in front of the computer all the time, or in your bed.. try the shower. The added affect of the steam and hot water can heighten your senses. If you’re using a toy, try a shower mount like the Fleshlight Shower Mount. This will help you keep your toy in one spot and all you have to do is find your rhythm.
-We know porn is a favourite, but maybe try turning down the lights and
romancing yourself with some low music. Set the mood a little, you’d be surprised at how our senses are all related. A delicious candle can set a totally different tone. Once all of your senses are engaged you could experience a more heightened orgasm.
-Try playing with some edging. Prolong your play by some orgasm control and you can experience a longer, more explosive session. There are some great strokers or cockrings that will help you build that stamina, which in turn could help you last longer while your partner is involved.
-Add a toy! Here at Adult Source we are all about adding different toys. There are so many new technologies, and advancements in toys for penis owners. If you’ve previously tried a stroker check out some of the more advanced strokers, or even a body part. These can have different textures that are designed to provide different experiences each time. Not a fan of strokers? That’s fine, have you heard of the new ArcWave Ion? It’s the OG Air Pulse Toy for men. It uses pressure and air pulse technology to stimulate the frenulum. Hot Octopuss is another company that focuses on that frenulum. They have a pulse plate that uses a powerful oscillation that is totally revolutionary in the sex toy industry. You can use these toys completely hands free to add a whole new sensation to your routine.
-If you’re into butt-stuff, getting a little back door action while you masturbate can increase the intensity of your orgasm. Try adding some prostate massaging to your solo time to play around with different sensations. Don’t forget though, to use lots of lube and take things slow. You will thank us after your first blended orgasm. Stay tuned to the blog if you need more information on a prostate massage. We have a special blog post dedicated just to that.
Can we just add that mutual masturbation can be hot-hot-hot, as is communication. Learn your favourite rhythms and communicate that with your partner. Also, knowing what you need and what you like can help build that confidence within yourself. Don’t be ashamed to masturbate, and use as many aids as you require. Vulva owners have a huge selection of toys to choose from, and we are just starting to see some expansion in the amount of toys for penis owners too. What are you waiting for? Explore some of these products for yourself.
