What is the Prostate, or P-Spot? The prostate is a golf ball sized gland that encapsulates the urethra and the seminal vesicle. The main purpose of the prostate is to produce the seminal fluid that is released during ejaculation. It is also the muscle that creates the contractions that are felt during orgasm.
So why should you try the prostate orgasm? Here are a few differences between the penile orgasm and the prostate orgasm:
The amount of Ejaculate
If you’re trying to achieve the ultimate cum shot, try the prostate orgasm! You’d be surprised at how much semen you can produce.
The Sensations
We all know orgasms are fantastic, but the prostate orgasm can hit harder than a regular orgasm. This is because with a penile orgasm there are only 4-8 pelvic contractions, but the prostate orgasm is up to 12.
The Recovery
There is a shorter refractory period (recover time) with a prostate orgasm, this means multiple orgasms are within your reach.. and who doesn’t want to have multiple orgasms in one session?!
You can also experience both types of orgasm at the same time! This combination is what leads to the most explosive, mind blowing orgasm. This may be a little tricky for beginners to achieve, but we can help you get there. Did you know that men with Erectile Problems have been able to achieve orgasms after finding their P-Spot hands free?! How exciting is that?
There are a couple ways to stimulate the prostate to achieve these orgasms. You can stimulate it directly via the anus, or indirectly via the perineum.
Indirectly
You can stimulate the prostate indirectly by applying pressure to the perineum, the spot between the scrotum and the anus. The perineum will feel fleshier and softer than the surrounding area. To explore the area during solo play, you can use either your fingers, or a smooth vibrator to apply pressure to the perineum, pair this with masturbation to get closer to experiencing both orgasms at once. This is also a great place to play during a partner session. They can do this with their finger during oral, or by adding a vibrator to the area. Play around with speeds and pressures to achieve the most excellent orgasm.
There are also some vibrating cockrings that play double duty as a cockring and perineum massager. A few of our favorites? We-Vibe Verge and the Hot Octopuss Atom Plus. Both of these cockrings are designed to stretch around the testicles as well as the base of the penis to provide some pressure and vibration to the perineum. The Hot Octopuss Atom Plus is great for use during intercourse too. It has dual motors to provide pleasure to both partners, but you don’t have to wait for a partner to try indirect P-Spot stimulation. Both of these cockrings would make for an exciting solo session! Try it out for yourself and see whether the pressure works for you, or if you enjoy the vibration as well.
Directly
Stimulating the prostate internally, via the anus, gives the most intense sensation. This can get a bit tricky when you’re exploring by yourself. However there are so many toys that can help you play. You can use a smooth insertable toy to apply pressure to the prostate. When you’re looking for a toy, make sure it has a flared base, and a forward curve. You’ll want the curve of the toy to point towards the belly button. You can rock the toy slightly until you find the right amount of pressure for you. If you want to experiment with vibration there are also toys that have the same shape that include vibration. Try looking for a toy with a deep rumbly vibration to make the most of the sensation. If you want to explore the prostate internally with a partner, there are some amazing toys that can help you with this too!
Both: (!!!) – Seriously, this is worth a shot.
The best part about the prostate is there are multiple ways to stimulate it, and often you can do both at the same time! A lot of vibrating prostate toys will have a flat base that curves towards the body, holding itself in place, that applies pressure to the prostate and the perineum at the same time. Often, the toy will have dual motors so you can experience vibration that is sure to get you there, and quick.
For the perfect trifecta, try looking for a toy that also includes a cockring!
Always remember to use lube when playing in the back door. A decent silicone based lube is what we suggest. However, there are some good water based lubricants that work well for anal, as long as you remember to re-apply. If this is your first time exploring the back door, remember that being relaxed as well as excited makes things a lot easier. There are also some products on the market to help you relax, though we do not suggest using any desensitizing lotions, or lubes, because they will numb the area and could lead to microtears. We want you to enjoy your experience with anal exploration so you can get that explosive P-Spot orgasm.
Don’t be shy, explore your body and unlock the most intense orgasm!
